I’m new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don’t know anything about lemmy etiquette and don’t want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

  • 𒉀TheGuyTM3𒉁@lemmy.ml
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    6 days ago

    You can say anything, but always better to have an account on two or three politically different instances in case you want to critisize USA, China, or any controversial thing in the world.

    But if you ain’t an asshole, you’re welcome! Have a nice journey into the fediverse!

  • Professorozone@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    So when I came here from Reddit I didn’t know what to pick, so I picked .world figuring it would be bigger or something. Over time it seems like people are saying that .ml is just horrible. I actually thought that .ml stood for militant full of right wing tankies ( don’t know the exact definition of that either). Lately someone essentially berated me for being on the worst one. Just now, I went to the little pull out on the side to see how to change it and what the options were and didn’t even see how to do that.

    Bottom line, I have no clue how any of this works. I just wanted to see some interesting content, news from a different perspective, some fun memes, and some cool comments. I don’t even understand what fediverse means other than it’s kind of like borg technology, meaning that the information is spread across a bunch of servers instead of a single point of failure.

    Maybe one day I’ll look into all of this, but seriously I have a life. As long as I open it and get what I want, I’m good. I almost never post because they are almost always removed for violating some rule. The last time I posted a question on a Linux forum and was getting some really good answers only to have it removed for violating a rule I didn’t even understand. LOL.

    Good luck to you.

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    7 days ago

    Unless it’s a meme reference (lol same) comments are generally more thought out and well constructed, as you can see from the replies here.

  • Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works
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    7 days ago

    Post frequently. Comment frequently. Make some friends/acquaintances. Try to remember that the folks making posts and comments are generally human (more so than on reddit). Try to be kind. Don’t pay too much mind to inter-instance drama unless it’s in a light-hearted and fun way (it’s simply not worth it otherwise), or has a real impact on your experience (in which case use the blocking tools). If someone named Nicole PMs you ignore it and maybe let your instance’s admin team know.

    I’ve been here for two years now. It’s generally a great group and I’m happy I joined the API-ocolypse migration from reddit. Welcome! :)

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    9 days ago

    I don’t mean this rudely, but there are a lot of autistic IT nerds on here who are trying to be helpful, but come off as know-it-all and rude. If you keep that in mind, it’s a nice place.

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      9 days ago

      That’s an offensive stereotype. Some of us are autistic humanities nerds who are trying to be helpful, but come off as know-it-all and rude!

  • EsmereldaFritzmonster@lemmings.world
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    7 days ago

    Lemmy is like an unintuitive, user-unfriendly reddit. And everyone likes it that way. I’m not leaving bc i want to support open-source shit, but I’m hoping it gets more user friendly someday.

  • Caketaco@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    9 days ago

    The community can mostly feel like it was skimmed off the top layer of ornery “erm, aktually” types from Reddit. The etiquette here is what you would expect from that. The days of “remembering the human” are dead and buried.

    Like all places online, people and sub-communities vary, but that’s mostly the vibe I get whenever browsing the comments of just about anything that hits my instance’s All page.

    I’ll take it any day over dealing with Reddit Inc’s chicanery, I guess.

  • mesa@piefed.social
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    9 days ago

    Don’t be a jerk and you will be fine.

    We are all mostly human here. Just remember that. Hope you have a great time on the fediverse!