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TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 months ago

What is the most important non-physical trait you need in a spouse?

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What is the most important non-physical trait you need in a spouse?

TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 months ago
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  • Brutticus@midwest.social
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    Patience. Im very stupid and I work a lot, so I dont always have time to spend with you.

  • 🍉 Albert 🍉@lemmy.world
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    not be an abusive narcissist.

    I’d appreciate that

  • mavu@discuss.tchncs.de
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    2 months ago

    humour

  • abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    The ability to kill a yak from 200 yards away

    • falseWhite@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      Isn’t this a physical trait though?

      • abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
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        2 months ago

        … with mind bullets!

        • AdamEatsAss@lemmy.world
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          You DO NOT want this. I made this mistake. I thought my partner could only do yaks. I was WRONG. I now have to stay 200 yards from them at all times or risk my own life.

          • d00phy@lemmy.world
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            You mean 201 yards away!

            • AdamEatsAss@lemmy.world
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              Oh no. I do. I hope my partner didn’t realize my mistake.

    • LastYearsIrritant@sopuli.xyz
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      With mind bullets?

      • abbadon420@sh.itjust.works
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        That’s telekinesis, Kyle

    • everett@lemmy.ml
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      2 months ago

      How about the power… to move you?

  • UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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    1 month ago

    They have to like basements as much as I do

  • Tangerine Twist@scribe.disroot.org
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    2 months ago

    Compassion.

    Some of us need understanding from magnanimous people.

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    Being able to listen, love, and not be a hostile feminist.

    I think this excludes the latest generation, lol. But if you are a good woman in this generation, some guy will be very lucky.

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      Do you mean hostile sexism? I’m so confused because hostile feminism is like an oxymoron. What is hostile feminism to you? Do you mean post-feminism, sexism, 4th wave feminism, etc.?

      • मुक्त@lemmy.ml
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        Philosophy of feminism is as liquid as genders. If you can have 90 genders, you can also have 90 feminisms, not just 3-4 waves.

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        You think the words hostile and feminist are contradicting eachother? How?

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          Feminism in a nutshell is about gender equality. Not much room for hostility in there.

        • very_well_lost@lemmy.world
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          Damn, it’s crazy how aggressively Incels always tell on themselves…

  • HubertManne@piefed.social
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    patience

  • razorcandy@discuss.tchncs.de
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    Ability to communicate and compromise when needed.

  • nagaram@startrek.website
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    I want to be called out.

    I love philosophy stuff and often I’ll start to form an opinion that’s a scientific or even problematic.

    My lovely fiancé will often call out potentially shitty thoughts and I re-evaluate them.

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    Empathy

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    A sense of humor.

  • elucubra@sopuli.xyz
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    Wit

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    willing to have calm debates and willingness to reevaluate ones stands on a matter.

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      This. We all grew up a certain way and like things a certain way. Lots of discontent can come from sharing a life with someone if you’re not will to reevaluate your new normal.

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    I would say piety.

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