Every day gives you another chance. It’s really freaking hard when you’re down in a hole like this. That’s why I said to check out that other post. Many of us have been in similar spots. We’re here to help, but we can’t give you answers cuz we aren’t you. You need to work every day to find what does work for you.

There’s no secret to being liked by women. It’s the same as being liked by anyone. You have to be someone likeable, not just fake likeable, and it starts with valuing yourself enough to lift yourself out of the mental place you are at. This is like anything else, you got to build from the bottom up with a strong foundation.

not that it has ever done anything before and it’s just pointless even trying with women anymore tbh

This is part of the problem. This is a part of you that you need to work on. If you don’t change your mindset you’re going to bring it with you into all of your interactions with women and it will poison them.

I understand the hopelessness, but you have to pull yourself out of it.

2.8 billion-ish adult women on this planet. Even with all of the internet porn you’ve seen, people you’ve met in real life or ever seen on a screen, is such a tiny drop in the ocean of humanity. Even if you refuse to internalize the great advice all up and down this thread that boils down to “have empathy”, it is still a game of numbers in your favor. No doubt, if you didn’t change, there would still be a fantastic chance of finding someone broken enough to get into a co-dependent situationship with sex with you. So chin up, bro.