I (32m) haven’t had sex in 5 months and it’s driving me insane. Never been in a relationship and mostly had sex with prostitutes. Self pleasing myself is getting old and have to be high to even enjoy doing it. Women are just to complicated to talk to and get with. I’ve almost just given up on them completely and accepted being single for life as I am about to be 33yo in a couple months with no optimism of that changing ever. So yeah if there is anyone in the same boat that possibly has social anxiety and loneliness let me know how you cope.

  • Bongles@lemmy.zip
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    2 months ago

    not that it has ever done anything before and it’s just pointless even trying with women anymore tbh

    This is part of the problem. This is a part of you that you need to work on. If you don’t change your mindset you’re going to bring it with you into all of your interactions with women and it will poison them.

    I understand the hopelessness, but you have to pull yourself out of it.