my partner ivy is like this. she says she likes me and likes talking to me, but she doesn’t like calling, texting, or going out, so she won’t do any of that stuff with me. i hope our relationship isn’t doomed… has anyone had a similar story? how did it go??
You only listed things she doesn’t wan’t to do with you. Are there other activities she enjoys doing together and do you enjoy these things as well? Like do you hang out with each other in person / at home or is she avoiding contact in general? Would you both enjoy to intensify these kind of activities? Are you both intested to find new activities that you can both find fulfillment together in like hiking, sewing, reading etc.?