my partner ivy is like this. she says she likes me and likes talking to me, but she doesn’t like calling, texting, or going out, so she won’t do any of that stuff with me. i hope our relationship isn’t doomed… has anyone had a similar story? how did it go??
we just don’t hang out much is the problem
It’s really hard to give advice about this without knowing both your circumstances. But what I know about relationships, romantic or otherwise, is that you need to talk to each other. Tell her you want to spend more time with her, ask her if there’s any way to do that, be willing to compromise, find a solution. No yelling or accusations, you don’t want to pressure her into anything but to find out about how she thinks and feels.