my partner ivy is like this. she says she likes me and likes talking to me, but she doesn’t like calling, texting, or going out, so she won’t do any of that stuff with me. i hope our relationship isn’t doomed… has anyone had a similar story? how did it go??

  • lib1 [comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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    2 months ago

    So your relationship is based exclusively on hanging out alone at each other’s places? Have you asked her why? Like does she have a reason for not liking those other things? I don’t know how you’d stay in long term contact with a person you didn’t live with under those conditions.

    • jaden (she/they)@thelemmy.clubOP
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      2 months ago

      She just doesn’t like them, she said. All we do is go to each other’s houses, we don’t go out to restaurants or stores anymore