I (32m) haven’t had sex in 5 months and it’s driving me insane. Never been in a relationship and mostly had sex with prostitutes. Self pleasing myself is getting old and have to be high to even enjoy doing it. Women are just to complicated to talk to and get with. I’ve almost just given up on them completely and accepted being single for life as I am about to be 33yo in a couple months with no optimism of that changing ever. So yeah if there is anyone in the same boat that possibly has social anxiety and loneliness let me know how you cope.


I don’t want intimacy as it just leads to being hurt anyway and used
Fear of intimacy will stop you from finding relationships that do not revolve around hurt and use. You will find one with time.
Glad you’re optimistic about it and you don’t even know me