I (32m) haven’t had sex in 5 months and it’s driving me insane. Never been in a relationship and mostly had sex with prostitutes. Self pleasing myself is getting old and have to be high to even enjoy doing it. Women are just to complicated to talk to and get with. I’ve almost just given up on them completely and accepted being single for life as I am about to be 33yo in a couple months with no optimism of that changing ever. So yeah if there is anyone in the same boat that possibly has social anxiety and loneliness let me know how you cope.
As a woman in a relationship, I certainly don’t want to be chased (neither did I want it before the relationship started). I’m more attracted to people that treat me as a person, not as a fuck object. View it like this.
Would you want someone to have a relationship with you only because you’re rich? Or because you’re a good person? True love is not what is centered around your body or what you have, but who you are.
Friendship is a good way. It sounds paradoxical, but letting go of the idea of needing a partner and accepting that, makes you find a partner much quickier. It’s how most of my guy friends found theirs. You can achieve it, but God will not help you.
Sounds like an Atheist talking
I’m Christian. Like I said, you should not judge too hastily, and you did.
God will definitely help me in all aspects of my life if I dedicate myself to him
I dunno, God didn’t help my grandfather from not having to witness people getting shot by the Nazis. Priests that rape little children also don’t terribly help with life.
Faith helps more with combatting fear of your own death. But it won’t help you with getting laid.
Pray harder and maybe the incel-ness will go away?