i am middle aged man, i experienced life since before even computer and smartphone is a thing like today.

back then, i feel that life is much easier, what i mean easier is more simple life, less competition, less stress, fresh environment, and more happiness despite lack of technology.

but right now, everything is just too complicated despite of power of tech, internet, smartphone, and AI helps, i feel that life is much harder right now, what i mean is like competition is everywhere, stressful everyday, crowded city, and i easily depressed these days.

is it just me or everyone else can relate to what happens right now?

  • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
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    2 days ago

    Yes it is, we are being squeezed! We have less ways out. I’m far better than I ever was, actually have better health, and fitness. Yet, it is hopeless.

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      20 hours ago

      i am suprised you still motivated enough to keep health and fitness in check despite of how bad things going on right now

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        19 hours ago

        I mostly don’t, my job forced me to be fit and lean. I at most hydrate, shower, and shave. I eat whatever garbage I can, and sleep in a dump.

        My father revealed a secret. If he feels it is funny to just have secret income while letting me handle the debt, it’s going to be less funny when I give my 2 weeks in October. Maybe I will survive, or maybe kill myself. Will see.

        But I can’t be sane with this kind of job, need to self-correct.

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    2 days ago

    You could post this exact question at literally any time in history and get a whole host of agreeing answers. That’s a basic sanity test you should use to determine that this is a question incorrectly put.

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      Same with how young people are lazy etc. etc. people never learn from history, it is just crazy.

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        1 day ago

        It’s all I seem to see on forums these days, people complain about how the internet has gotten more depressing but don’t stop to realise it’s those same people posting stuff like this that makes it depressing.

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    2 days ago

    tbh a large part of it probably has to do with you getting older and looking back in the good old days in rose tinted glasses

    some parts of the world got better now compared to few decades ago, while others have gotten much worse

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      I’m not even sure if the average rich person’s life is actually getting netter by hoarding even more wealth. I tend to believe that being really rich is kind of an illness. Like an addiction where you never feel powerful or rich enough because there’s always someone that’s ahead of you. I feel that capitalism, especially in its current stage, is really bad for everyone.

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    Yeah it’s sucks. I feel like everthing I do or will do need to be optimazed instead of done for sake of doing.

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    They broke the social contract. The thing that a polite, cooperative society is built on. So now we see what that means as more everyday folk realize it over time.

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    I was born in the 60’s and feel ya. Funny that there’s a lot of people who never knew life before internet like we never knew life without television. My take on it is we are bombarded. We see everything that happens all over the planet as soon as it happens. Yet our ability to affect things is still the same. That I feel makes us feel small. Spend less time looking at screens

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    2 days ago

    Yeah, i mean we make more stuff than ever before per capita and all that, and yet we still have to fight harder and harder to survive. How so? We’ll these fucking billionaires are also richer than ever before. Crassus’ wealth is estimated at like $2B in today’s dollars. Rockefeller is estimated at like $300-400B. Musk is more than double that. It’s very clear what’s happening, the rich use the capitalist surplus as a weapon to extract more wealth from the poor.

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    Def not just you, it’s everyone some people are just better at ignoring it. I’ve always been raised around computers myself, but we’re talking Windows 3.1 and 95 lol. I do indeed think it’s the tech though. People have alter egos they try to pretend is real on social media. News travels faster with it, real or fake. Music you’d have to buy, listen to the radio, or watch TRL or 106 in park. Things are so immediate these days. People used to read, learn, etc. I got kids, and a large chunk of the shit they tell me they’ve learned was from TikTok. It truly is a different world, and it is stressful. It’s hard to keep up, but you’re here, and you’re doing just fine.

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    yeah it’s intentional.

    oligarchs are hoarding the resources and getting people to distract themselves by pointing at each other while they stockpile their bunkers.

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    2 days ago

    Think of every day as a tiny knife, stabbing you.

    (I forgot who said that in their routine and I don’t want to look it up but it’s somebody. Accordion lady? I refuse)

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    3 days ago

    Can definitely relate. Am in my early 50’s. Canadian government sold out Canadians, and now the country is a complete shithole. We’re actively looking to leave Canada.