I’ll go first. My ex cheated on me with a dude, (I’m les, she’s bi,) brought home chlamydia and bed bugs, then after 13 years of no contact, texts me randomly to try and pull me into an MLM pyramid scheme.

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    I don’t blame you for ignoring it, but I read that as a request for confirmation whether they could remarry or not. I think I may have replied with the briefest confirmation possible and then refused any other contact.

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      He can remarry. We’re divorced. Its between him and the cult of they want to punish him for it. I refuse to give them any power.

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      “Sorry, but after our relationship I became celibate and it’s been great. Good luck! Please don’t contact me again.”

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        Not sure how awful you would want to be in that situation, but with a lot more effort it could be even funnier without any words but a lewd picture instead, if your partner is up for it.

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            If this is the last straw to leave it, sure, that’s worth it.

            As it is it just sounded like spite, though. C’mon, it’s been years and the dude just wants a yes or no so he can move on.

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          I mean I don’t know specifics obviously but cults aren’t exactly women-forward tmk so I don’t tend to have much sympathy for the men in one.