Maybe it’s just poor Silas whipping himself for his sins?
It’s interesting that you think there are any women in this image.
Maybe it’s only women…
I don’t see a tool belt in the shadow.
Some men call bottoms their GF or wife…
Getting reports on this. Could you add a NSFW tag?
As a general rule of thumb, it would be best to tag anything that is (or appears to be) from porn, even if censored or off screen.
This is fucking ridiculous. People breaking free from the cages of the privatised web, only to forge new shackles for themselves.
when people post cropped porn, they should also post which porn they cropped, so people know which porn to avoid.
I spend 15 minutes on trying to figure the title out, but no luck. If someone here recognizes the title, please share
Ah yes, people escaping the shackles of the privatized web in the name of … gooner memes.
No one’s asking to ban the content, just add a tag so people who actually work in places that might not take kindly to pornographic memes have a warning.
This is probably one of the most loosely moderated communities on Lemmy, intentionally. I have no desire to be the morality or thought police, I just know that a lot of people don’t want to be surprised with porn or gore that they weren’t intending to see, so sometimes I ask people to use the NSFW tag.
Literally Hitler
Which I think is fair, adding the tag doesn’t stop anyone from enjoying the content but gives them the ability to make the choice. It’s not like you’re banning the stuff.
Unlike the corpo web, we don’t have shadowbanning/deboosting of NSFW content, so there’s no real reason to avoid it.
Why do women have smaller feet? So that they can stand closer to the kitchen sink.
But seriously: whoever is free, does the dishes. And we have the microwave rule: when the microwave is running, don’t stand around waiting, do something useful. Obviously, this is applicable not only to the microwave. So, cleaning the kitchen is an ongoing process, but thanks to that we never get to a stage where doing the dishes or cleaning the counter feels like a chore.
LOL on the feet reference
I think my wife should do all the dishes, but that’s because I do all the cooking.
you probably should both split prep and cleaning and rotate kitchen duty
It would be nice, but I don’t see that happening. She has texture sensitivity issues, which is why I’m also the one who does dishes.
Plus, I’m objectively a way better cook because my mom actually cared to teach me life skills (that’s a dig at my MIL, not my wife). Also, a lot of my skills are intuition based, and I have no idea how to teach that.
This isn’t to slam you, just a tidbit in case you and your wife ever do decide to try teaching her to cook:
Intuition comes from a lot of practice, and external feedback on how close/far you were and how to improve for next time. A professional chef can intuit the temp of a fish they cooked within a degree because they’ve cooked thousands of fish filets, measured each one with a thermometer to confirm it was cooked correctly, and had other chefs guide them on what to look for (or swore at them when they got it wrong, but maybe don’t do that to your wife). They’ve thrown out hundreds of botched plates. And now they can cook a fish and know with their gut when it’s done.
Your wife’s first 300 dishes are going to be not so great. And then she’ll figure out how to identify what’s missing in the flavour, and how to keep from over-cooking the meat, and you get to be there to help her with that, and cheer her on, and call out every time she improves.
Or maybe she finds 300 new textures she hates, but finds 2 meals that don’t squick her out to prepare. And that’s OK, too.
practice makes perfect! It doesn’t take skill to be good at prep and cleaning, just willpower and minimal physical capability. If she doesn’t want to cook then you can do it voluntarily. Just seems weirdly old fashioned to have one person do all the cleaning when that is objectively the worst part of cooking
It’s the best way to split cooking dinner in my experience. I am one of those crazy people that think cooking includes pre and post work, like any other task. Cleaning is essential to the cooking process, if you want your brain to be able to process the necessary time and energy it’ll take.
Why
She cooks and hates cleaning and I hate cooking so I clean. 🤷👍
I hate doing the dishes.
So if left up to my own devices I will just kind of… it. For an extended period of time.
In past relationships my partner has done the dishes while I’ve done other things so that we have an equitable distribution of tasks.
I don’t really care if they get done so much. But she always does
Don’t step in the water, don’t step in it!
Is it all just water?
Maybe next time he shouldn’t do it from behind her, she clearly blocked his view and he’s spilling water all over the place :)
