• dreadbeef@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    4 days ago

    practice makes perfect! It doesn’t take skill to be good at prep and cleaning, just willpower and minimal physical capability. If she doesn’t want to cook then you can do it voluntarily. Just seems weirdly old fashioned to have one person do all the cleaning when that is objectively the worst part of cooking

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      10 hours ago

      Life and relationships are complicated. You don’t know how all the work is distributed in their lives. Maybe she does everything else and feels like he should do more. Maybe he does it all and is frustrated. Maybe they split the chores in a way that makes them all happy. You simply don’t know.

      Stop giving advice when you don’t know.