I’m 19 now and engaged to my 17-year-old girlfriend, whom I’ve been with for three years. We have a wedding planned for September 2026. It has always been my dream to have a family of my own, and that motivated me to propose: why wait if you know what you want? Thankfully, my parents are supportive, and I’m aware that without them, none of this would be possible at our age.
Neither of you have ever even had to live on your own yet. You haven’t even started learning who you are as adults.
If this does work out in the long run, it will be dumb luck. You have the same chance with any random stranger.
And since no one else has said it, I will. You were 16 dating a 14 year old, that’s not ok. At that age all she can do is cosplay a relationship, that’s a child.
One day she is going to wake up and realize she got into all this before she even understood what it was, god help you both when that happens.
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This comment really seems like it crawled out of Reddit.
If you’re trying to be constructive cut that narcissistic crap - your “superior” ethics have no value here. The only person who hasn’t learned as an adult is you: shoving manipulative bullshit and complete nonsense.
Now how about you, cosplay a better human that actually contributes to the status quo.