A follow-up question on this topic, how often do you guys go back and check out these memories? Because I seemed to have developed an habit of clicking videos and photos but never checking them and when I check them after a long while, I literally have 0 memory of that scene.

I think It’s one thing to have these memories stored somewhere digitally and one thing to have them registered in our heads. It’s an odd feeling when you look a old video and feel “did I really do that?” Does anybody else relate to this?

Yeah ever since channels were added I am using that tab much lesser. And oh nobody texts me anymore either.

Thanks dude! :)

I just checked the YouTube channel and wow this is like a goldmine to me! Surprised how this channel never got recommended to me by YT algorithm from how much of calisthenics content I was watching. Will be checking their app too!

Reading this title, I was like as the doomer guy myself, “hah nothing achieved this year” and it then clicked in my head that I was actually doing some pushups and squats in my home on consistent basis.

I am very lean guy with my weight usually hanging around the underweight to healthy weight but I’ve started to develop some belly which is very noticeably to the people around me. So I decided to do some very basic body weight exercises -pushups and squats.

I started with not being able to do 2-3 pushups a day to current personal best of 12 pushups in one go! I have visible enough biceps and triceps now too :P (highlighted as a tldr answer)

I still haven’t figured out the right way to go about my calisthenics journey with proper plans and programs, it feels kinda tough to find proper resources for a complete beginner, so if you know a really good resource do share it with me! I’d would’ve have a calisthenics focused community on lemmy too.

Where are the mods?

You can tie happiness to the things you like, but I feel this kind of happiness has become very fleeting for me. I feel happy one moment and then feel the sadness coming back. I think this has to do with the fact that, in my head, I feel I’m behind in my life and been stuck without any breakthroughs that I find my peers are getting.

Yeah, I like watching sports and anime. Used to like playing video games but not anymore.

And how do I do that?

What do they achieve from this?

Gaining energy going social activities not losing it

I am majorly on single messaging app and rarely visit others and I had this close irl friend who ghosted me for an year and came back very recently.

I was so confused why they would just leave me on read for over an year. Yes, we had our career paths shift away from eachother but still felt crazy to me. They did text me on other sites though in this one year period, where I’m inactive. I kinda felt lonely and eventually made sure I’m active on other popular apps as well so I don’t get left out. We had a little chat recently but yeah not like we used to.

(Oh I just realised I left out one very popular messaging app too. I need ro work on that and actively add people there so I’m available when they think of me. Putting them away saying “hey I dont use that app” would only discourage them from connecting me)

Since many have already answered to OP, I will ask another version of question similar to this.

What kind of ghosting is this when people only text you when you text them first? And when you don’t, the conversation never happens again?

Texts are literally made for busy people. I don’t understand how you can call later but not have time later to check their text. Calls demand you at the very moment but texts allow you to respond whenever you are free.

I feel bad for her :(

Did you do something for it happen? Because sometimes I think “Nothing changes, if nothing changes” is true and but then again I get tired of doing things, I’ll spiral back to “I’ll just stick around” mood.

Idk maybe if I just sick around a bit longer, maybe something good will happen.

I had a crush with whom I have never talked to but I still fantasize about them time to time creating scenarios in my head which will never happen. It’s not healthy I know but makes me feel good feelings.

Watching them is bad?

How do I do that on my android tv?

Yes but at that point, your body is at it’s weakest stage too.

There are billions of free users available. All they need to do is strip-off few excellent features of their free model and hide it behind a pay wall annnnd voila these free users have now became their paying customers!