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  • null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world7 for me
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    15 hours ago

    I’ve been 20 for most of my 43 years.

    However, we had twins recently. They’re 18 months old and we all co-sleep. I don’t want to be a prudish family where kids aren’t allowed to see a bum or whatever, but I also don’t want to feel weird about snuggling up together.

    So… I’ve been wearing pyjamas just to avoid any awkwardness.




  • Aiding and abetting a genocide is depraved.

    Agreed.

    Going on national TV and lying about seeing “pictures of 40 beheaded babies” is depraved.

    Agreed.

    He deserves much worse.

    Agreed.

    Celebrating when a war criminal gets prostate cancer? Not depraved at all in my opinion.

    Hard disagree.

    You can acknowledge that he’s an awful person while refraining from celebrating his misfortune.

    If someone deserves punishment, celebrating that punishment is basically just hatred. I might want to get that looked at.


  • I don’t really care what the hard antinatalism position is in the same way I don’t care what the hard flat earth position is.

    You’re talking about it as though it’s a credible ideology when in reality it is, at best, a nutty thought experiment with no real world application.

    It’s not a question of whether being brought into existence is good.

    As a parent, I acknowledged and accepted the risk that a potential child might not have wanted to be born. That’s it. Presently, I don’t know how I will navigate that if it turns out to be the case, the same way I don’t know how I will navigate my daughter dating or my son watching porn, but I do know I’m going to try my best to figure those things out when I encounter them.

    Every parent since the dawn of time has made up solutions as problems have arisen, some better than others. No parent seriously considered whether their unconceived child consented.








  • nobody got my consent to bring me here

    I think every child tries this once. Parent says “I brought you in to this world and I raised you up so I deserve a little respect” or similar. Yes demanding respect like this is a dick move and a great example of toxic parenting, but it’s the style of parenting most millennials encountered. Child responds “well I never asked to be born”.

    The obvious problem is… it’s not possible to ask someone whether they would like to be conceived prior to conception.

    How much more stupid can it get?

    Well, if adults are trying this “I never asked to be born” shit I guess it can’t get much stupider.