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Cake day: October 1st, 2023

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  • My life has been pretty trauma free, but even I sometimes benefit from trigger warnings. Sometimes you’re just not in the mood for certain themes.

    I was once on a long flight to attend the funeral of a close friend, and was watching a movie on the flight. I didn’t know there’d be a funeral scene, and that hit way harder in the state of mind I was in at the time. I don’t regret watching the movie, but it did give me a glimpse of how triggers work, in a form probably much milder than how people with real trauma would experience it.

    In general I often find that accommodations for people with special needs often also benefit the general population. Accessible web design is often more pleasant to use in my experience, and probably easier for search engines also.







  • If there’s an activity or skill you’ve been wanting to get into, you could try taking a class in that. You’ll meet some other people at your approximate skill level, and it’s an opportunity to socialize.

    I’ve personally met a lot of people through climbing gyms and dance classes, both activities where you’re often paired up with one other person. Bouldering is great for smalltalk as well, because people are often eager to discuss approaches to the problem.

    Not everyone’s cup of tea, but I’ve also met some friends through work colleagues. A colleague of mine was going hiking with friends and invited me along, and since the friends didn’t work in the same company as us it felt disconnected enough from work for me at least.