Because most of the time, the reveal immediately results in a magical resolution of decades of behavioral issues stemming from the trauma.

Which never happens in real life. A reveal is a huge step in the healing process but it doesn’t mean the issue goes away. Maybe we cope better, maybe we regress maybe we relapse. But its seldom the clean outcome in the movies.

I can’t understand why every other fediverse name is so stupid as to be off putting to the average user.

I’m sorry for your loss.