

Also, you can’t easily/fast search in voice data and you end up implementing all kinds of weird and costly workarounds like AI transcription in order to make voice meetings searchable. Voice is great for telling stories around camp fire, but it’s awful way to convey and store information in a online forum.
Tell her to stop. Then cease all contact. No need to be respectful. It’s not a situation that needs fine granularity.
You are the adult in this and it’s always going to be your responsibility to do the right thing. So act like a responsible adult.