There were 5 that were toxic, the first one was a casual friend I ended up getting close with and started dating before we ever had sex. The next two were casual hookup partners that evolved into relationships, the fourth was actually a friend I had had since highschool and only started dating 15 years after graduation, and the fifth and final one was again a casual hookup that turned serious.
I admit as I wrote that out I saw the issue. In defense of the fourth one, she had some issues with her childhood, and the father of her children was … let’s just say not helping. We’ve reconnected after some time and are still friends, but agreed dating was a bad idea.
Well I’d admit that it seems like you unlocked the hot dad dating scene, go out and get them! You just keep in mind that you are gameable, and don’t eat your waffle without looking under the hood so to speak
LoL, two words I would not use to describe myself, hot and dad. Though I admit at this point in my life it is difficult to find someone who doesn’t have children. Yeah I know I’m gameable, that’s probably something that subconsciously is holding me back. I know that when I fall for someone, I fall hard. It’s not “thinking with the wrong head” it’s thinking “don’t screw this up because you’ll be alone forever”. Maybe now that I’m comfortable being alone I can be a bit more relaxed in a relationship.
Probably. I have never fallen softly, so I don’t think that’s the issue :) You need to be yourself to see if the other likes your real self, which I know is a saying that you hear too often but it’s like when you get insight and understand it from your own perspective that it makes a difference. If you feel great alone, let someone into that, instead of diving into someone else’s world and abandoning everything in the name of agreeableness. It’s just my experience and may not be the same for you. But let me tell you many adore hot dads and you don’t need kids to be one :P
There were 5 that were toxic, the first one was a casual friend I ended up getting close with and started dating before we ever had sex. The next two were casual hookup partners that evolved into relationships, the fourth was actually a friend I had had since highschool and only started dating 15 years after graduation, and the fifth and final one was again a casual hookup that turned serious.
I admit as I wrote that out I saw the issue. In defense of the fourth one, she had some issues with her childhood, and the father of her children was … let’s just say not helping. We’ve reconnected after some time and are still friends, but agreed dating was a bad idea.
Well I’d admit that it seems like you unlocked the hot dad dating scene, go out and get them! You just keep in mind that you are gameable, and don’t eat your waffle without looking under the hood so to speak
LoL, two words I would not use to describe myself, hot and dad. Though I admit at this point in my life it is difficult to find someone who doesn’t have children. Yeah I know I’m gameable, that’s probably something that subconsciously is holding me back. I know that when I fall for someone, I fall hard. It’s not “thinking with the wrong head” it’s thinking “don’t screw this up because you’ll be alone forever”. Maybe now that I’m comfortable being alone I can be a bit more relaxed in a relationship.
Probably. I have never fallen softly, so I don’t think that’s the issue :) You need to be yourself to see if the other likes your real self, which I know is a saying that you hear too often but it’s like when you get insight and understand it from your own perspective that it makes a difference. If you feel great alone, let someone into that, instead of diving into someone else’s world and abandoning everything in the name of agreeableness. It’s just my experience and may not be the same for you. But let me tell you many adore hot dads and you don’t need kids to be one :P