If you think this started with Silicon Valley that’s a mistake

  • Cowbee [he/they]@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    I don’t have personal experience with SA, nor am I homophobic. I’m pansexual myself. It isn’t at all a false equivalence to say that there’s a real difference in insult between telling someone to give you a haircut and telling someone to suck your dick. They are both services, but the latter draws stigma from historical sexism and homophobia. Using dicksucking as an insult affirms that history of bigotry, when in reality we should be fighting the negative stigma surrounding sexuality from women and gay men.

    • CovfefeKills@lemmy.world
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      2 months ago

      Bud I am not going to read further then you denying SA. I am truly sorry that happened to you but I will not partake in your internet ego, not like this.

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        2 months ago

        I don’t think it’s a good idea to mock SA. There’s no ego involved, I haven’t been a victim of SA, and it’s incredibly rude to those who have been victims to treat it like an insult to be flung at people you don’t like.

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          2 months ago

          I think your attempt to use SA against me backfired and you revealed yourself to be a projector. Please seek help.