Not like, casual “Hi, how are you?” but seriously, how are you? Are you sleeping okay, is everything in your personal life going all right? And if not, can Internet strangers do anything to help?

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      I feel that, just gotta keep on keeping on though. Even if today sucks, tomorrow could be better, and you can only hit the no button once.

      It’s a real sexy no button though.

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    I’m okay as long as I don’t doom scroll too much.

    I’m Canadian and middle aged. I was braced for a rough Trump 2.0, but the last month has truly exceeded expectations for suck. Our country is under economic attack by our biggest trading partner. Human rights and trying to help and support each other are suddenly considered bad things. Our window to address climate change is snapping shut as our leaders around the world move in the wrong direction. I’m feeling really good about my decision to not have kids at least.

    On the plus side, my sick cat is responding to treatment, and my partner and I have just set up a nursery - we’re going to start fostering wee kiddos whose families are going through rough spots. I’ve got some financial flexibility so I’m treating myself to a stack of coffee gift cards each week that I hand out to folks who look like they could use it. Sorta makes my day to be able to make sure someone unhoused gets a warm drink and some food.

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    can Internet strangers do anything to help?

    Thank you for asking, sincerely, but if Internet strangers tear into me for just having my comments have licensing footer text, there’s no way I’m going to start stating any of my real issues that I’m dealing with, for them to judge.

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      real issues

      Really not trying to be rude, but it’s like going out dressed up like a clown, and then wondering why no one takes you seriously.

      The person dressed as a clown could still have cancer, but people aren’t gonna ask about your health because you’re dressed like a clown. Perception sets expectations.

      To a lot of us, the licensing text is silly and superfluous, sorry. The courts the world over prioritize corporations over individuals and if you try to sue an AI company for scraping your comments… no offense but you’ll probably lose unless you’re a secret billionaire. That’s why it’s silly and superfluous, because the likelihood of you actually being able to protect them as intellectual property is near zero.

      You literally put it in every comment, and thus, people look at you like you’re dressed like a clown.

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        You’re defeatist attitude, and being so readily willing to give up your rights and protections, is disturbing to see.

        Metaphorically speaking, you don’t have to suck corporate penis automatically. It’s okay to push back, even if you fail, at least you can look at yourself in the mirror the next morning.

        Believe more in yourself, and of those other citizens around you. Don’t give in to the despair.

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          It’s not a defeatist attitude, it’s that we have fundamentally different views on copyright and intellectual property rights.

          I didn’t want to get into that part because why argue when we’re clearly on different pages, but since you want to call it defeatist and telling me I’m sucking corporate dick instead of wondering why I feel differently, I guess I’ll give it a go.

          Plagiarism is necessary. Progress implies it. It embraces an author’s phrase, makes use of his expressions, erases a false idea, and replaces it with the right idea.

          -Guy Debord, Society of the Spectacle, 1968

          I was influenced in my thought on this kind of stuff by people like Debord and Mark Hosler from Negativland.

          To mangle a quote from Hosler from a video I haven’t been able to find online in almost 20 years:

          “If you want to have control over your art: Keep it to yourself. Keep it in your home. Don’t show it to people.”

          As Dawkins theorized with memetics, when an idea is accepted into a new mind, the idea propagates and changes as it moves between people. Once that idea has been ingested by someone else’s mind, you can’t take it out of their mind again. They are already generating new ideas based on the meme of your art, thought, ideas. Copying each other is literally just how human communication works, and all this work to lay claim over it is at the very best superfluous and at the very worst a gross instinct of domination and control as opposed to sharing.

          Creative Commons doesn’t even offer the license that Negativland helped develop anymore.

          Am I giving up my rights or am I living in the actual real world of how real human communication actually works? If I wanted control over these ideas, I wouldn’t bother sharing them.

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              Thanks for the purposeful misreading and at no point making an attempt to engage with a different set of ideas. We’re done here and I will be shitting on you and your stupid fucking license vociferously from here on out because you’re an arrogant egotistical asshole.

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                Thanks for the purposeful misreading and at no point making an attempt to engage with a different set of ideas.

                Hard disagree. And I stand by what I’ve said.

                We’re done here and I will be shitting on you and your stupid fucking license vociferously from here on out because you’re an arrogant egotistical asshole.

                It would probably be easier (and more mature) to just use the block functionality, but you do you, I guess. 🤷‍♂️

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