Would you rather: date someone who you like but who doesn't initially like you back, or date someone who likes you whom you don't initially like back?

JayJLeas@lemmy.world · 2 days ago

Would you rather: date someone who you like but who doesn't initially like you back, or date someone who likes you whom you don't initially like back?

Pika@sh.itjust.works · 2 days ago

for context; I’m Aro-Ace with a slight demi-romantic lean(like barely a sliver), so it’s unlikely I would be in this situation in the first place, but if I was in this situation, I would much prefer the second one to be in play because it’s unlikely that I would ever have a situation where I found someone attractive without having a pre-existing bond created.