Some context does involve me opening up to this person and they telling me it’s cute that I open over text, being lonely might make me get attached to them quickly.
The whole thought is if they didn’t have same feelings about me; should I be open and say I should pursue a healthy relationship or just not say anything and let it come out through my actions
It depends. I’ve been on the other side and I’m glad they told me, but we were good friends. But it is awkward and uncomfortable, it just in that case made it so it was mutually understood what was happening as we drifted apart, rather than leaving me wondering why and them wondering what if.
Ultimately that’s the thing, if it’s probably a no, then you’re more likely balancing a question of how much it needs to be said with how awkward you expect it to be, though likelihood of reciprocation is still a factor here, it’s just that even at a definite no it may be worth it.
Most importantly though is about making it clear you’ll respect however they feel. I wish I didn’t have to say that, but unfortunately some people need it said.
Shit an actual cautionary tale that’s applicable to my situation. Most people assume I’m trying to gain a romantic relationship.
If someone else asks I guess I should play it off? I assume if they figured out through third party it would be weird