Some context does involve me opening up to this person and they telling me it’s cute that I open over text, being lonely might make me get attached to them quickly.

The whole thought is if they didn’t have same feelings about me; should I be open and say I should pursue a healthy relationship or just not say anything and let it come out through my actions

  • derfunkatron@lemmy.world
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    19 hours ago

    Oh. Oh, no.

    Remember when I said that you have been thinking about this a lot more than they probably have? This is exactly what I mean.

    If you actually love this person and you think they may not feel the same way, then what do you think will happen when you drop this bomb on them?

    A lot of times the need to tell someone you love them is a selfish act while unconditionally loving someone is a selfless act.

    Meditate on why you need to tell them.

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      16 hours ago

      Hopefully they tell me they don’t feel the same or that they feel something.

      Hopefully they would appreciate that they have my love