Some context does involve me opening up to this person and they telling me it’s cute that I open over text, being lonely might make me get attached to them quickly.
The whole thought is if they didn’t have same feelings about me; should I be open and say I should pursue a healthy relationship or just not say anything and let it come out through my actions
If you say anything and the other doesn’t want to go farther they are likely to handle this by not having anything more to do with you. That is as soon as you say anything there are two responses: they agree and you move forward, or you never see them again!
Unfortunately every advice I (or anyone else that I’ve seen) can get you is right for some situations/people and wrong for others. Move too slow and they give up on you if interested, move too fast and even if they are interested they get scared off. Good luck figuring this out for your exact relationship. Even if you get it right for some relationship that doesn’t mean the same thing will work for the next.
Yes it’s difficult there is no one size fits all advice for these situations as there are always a million of variables which is why you need to trust your heart I suppose
Part of me is accepting that this could go disastrously and going though with it anyway. Maybe I’m just bored.
The worse thing is she accepts me and just tears into me to prove I’m sensitive
Good luck. It might or might not work out for you.