Are friends just supposed to be like a TV? You talk to them when it’s convenient for you and you can’t think of something else to do?
I’ve just realized all the people I thought were my friends only talk to me on their schedule, when they feel like it. I’m left on read for days, meetings are ignored, text message conversations just end abruptly until they get back from vacation…
Is this it? Is this what friendship is? Because I don’t want it. I don’t want to feel like I have people to rely on only to find out that I’m just a convenience for people.
This is very unhealthy and not representative of what’s really happening. A therapist could help you with your dissatisfaction.
What?
Edit:
Alternate title: Gaslighter suggests gaslighting.
This is also not a healthy response.
You’re really good at invalidating people’s experiences. You’d enjoy being a therapist .
I’m begining to understand your frustrations with friends.
You also lack accountability; you must already be licensed.