• 7101334@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    In fact, you’re more likely to meet people who are both old and in shape at the gym because…

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      2 days ago

      I mean, more power to you. I’m mostly just saying “Women over 55 who are fit exist, you can find them at gyms all over the country.” I’m not suggesting you need to hit on any of them.

      The other user said it to you, too.

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      2 days ago

      Meeting people doesn’t mean you’re approaching them to flirt.

      The argument is whether fit women over 55+ exist. They do.

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        2 days ago

        It’s not necessarily even about your intention, it’s about leaving people alone when they probably want to be left alone.

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          2 days ago

          You’re completely missing the point.

          No one is telling you to approach these women at the gym. Just notice that they exist.