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    If you can’t trust your partner, you should talk with them about your feelings and be prepared to potentially leave. Regardless of what’s actually going on.

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    Ballet, gymnastics and figure skating are amazing. It’s unfair they only get attention by weird posts like this.

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    A straight guy would be too distracted to continue dancing and he’s locked in so not straight. A gay guy would have burst in to flame touching a vagina so not gay.

    He’s obviously a robot.

    But in seriousness that level of locked in is amazing, on both their parts.

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      This guy throws a fragile human being in the air, minding sexual nuance of where his finger lands on is last of his worries and you don’t need to be a robot for that.

      I played my share of rugby, and I played it mostly as tighthead lock. In normal words this means that a lot of my game time was spent with my head between bums of front row players, or grabbing other player deep under butt cheeks to throw them in the air.

      What I learned from it is as long as you care about what you do, you do not care about all else.

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        As a martial artist whom grappled a lot with sweaty people in clothes that easily get ruffled; even as a hormonally unstable teenager in my earlier days of it, I don’t recollect even thoughts of sexuality no matter the gender of the opponent/sparring partner (am bi) when engaged. It’s not too odd to even unconciously prioritise not getting a broken arm over whatever the fuck I’m touching to keep them away

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          It really varies a lot.

          In IT I’ve worked with tons of HR people, including a company made out of HR people.

          Most of them lived in a perpetual state of “what the actual fuck is wrong with you,” towards management. Literally anything good about the jobs not with the HR company was due to their HR people fighting like hell against the C-suite for it.

          And the HR company was by far the best company I have, or will ever worked with. They ran it with the laid back attitude of a startup despite being around since the 80s, without all of the hidden abuses that startups have.

          Like, when I was hired, they asked me for my salary expectations. When I told them, they said no and added $30k to it. After 6 months I was on a 2 week vacation and I got a call from my boss that they decided to give me another $20k.

          Then Musk cut the contract for a company that increased government efficiency by 1100%.