it isn’t, I’m hosting a private gitea instance on a home computer.

omg that reminds me of late nights playing left for dead 2. what a blast!

that looks like a lot of fun to play with friends

it influences the hot sorting

you already have a cloud flare tunnel, so you can add a new entry for a domain and point it to another service. cloud flare handles the encryption. for docker, I have my reverse proxy on port 80 doing the routing and the docker route is http://localhost/

I appreciate the thought and story telling here 😂

that’s quite a long compose file.

the way that I use cloud flare is with tunnels since my ISP blocks my ports. I have cloudflared running that connects to the cloudflare tunnel, which has a map of domain name to a service name, which is how services are accessed externally.

tailscale connects to tail scales main service and that’s how I access internal systems. at least that’s how I’m running it.

I went to an interview for a company in the west coast and I was in central time. the recruiter told me that they had core hours and I’d have some flexibility. one of the first questions was whether I was willing to work Pacific time, which I wasn’t, especially since it wasn’t the best paying job in the world. That interview lasted about 30 seconds.

tailscale is a vpn. you don’t need cloudflare for it. you do need to set up the tail scale container with your credentials from tail scale, which they have guides for. after that, log in on your machine and click the connect toggle and you’re in.

the exit node is if you want to look like you’re at your host computer.

The thing with therapists is that you need to find one that works for you, but that also takes experience.

But I think that if you avoid Christian counselors, you’ll more likey avoid that. My experience with Christian ones is that they tend to be more on the side of making you look the part rather than being your true self, since you know, your true self is despicable in the eyes of God and all.

I think it you can afford it, going over these things with a professional can help you work through things or help you identify how that’s affected you in ways you may not have thought.

and remember, you can always change therapists (just avoid changing because they challenge you)

yeah this run I’m doing druid, which I never played. Id like to try an old ranger/fighter build I did once

exactly!

what an experience! thank you for sharing :)

it looks like you’ll need to message the mods

for New Orleans, it’s Tchoupitoulas (chop-a/i-too-lus). Locals just call it Chop.

if the choice is always the same and it goes forever, then always choosing to pass means no one gets killed? unless you get to a little shit who breaks the trend

I’ll include mine to show that it’s not unusual to support them! it’s my favorite and most used self hosted project

if you have off-site backup, that could potentially count as the two types, but probably not in the spirit of the backup.

I have two spinning disks, a SATA SSD cache, and off-site backup

that’s some PTSD right there. just leave that closed as long as you can